We all know how lovely it feels to be thanked for something we said or did. Even better to have our efforts recognized in front of others. What if this delightful experience was built-in to our daily lives?
photo by Andrea Piacquadio
During this time of relative isolation, what if we turned off the TV, and took a few minutes to tell those around us, or those we may not live with but care about, just how much we appreciate them? What if we did this not only today, but every day?
Here’s what I think might happen:
- Each person (the recipient and the speaker) would be fed by this act.
- We might get more creative with our thanks, exploring more and more reasons we take delight in another person. At the very least, so we are not saying the same thing every time!
- We will be more tuned in to the contributions that others are making for our connections. Our hearts will be more open to all the gifts we receive from others who live with us, in our lives.
- As this custom takes hold, we will become more aware of doing and saying positive things throughout each day, so that not only we are fed, but others can receive the satisfaction that comes from thanking us too.
Happy Thanksgiving Everyone!