There is a lot of emphasis on hate speech and hate crimes in the media these days, with government officials and community leaders calling for action among their own members and the general public.
Yes, we need strong unifying messages, and stronger laws addressing a broader range of damaging acts based in bigotry and discrimination.
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I am interested in how we can head off hate before it takes root. How do we help children develop empathy and tolerant attitudes? What do children need to experience in order to become more comfortable with others?
In Gnarly's Journey, I introduce a number of avenues to explore. Some goals are to help children learn how gratifying it can be to work together in a diverse group, how satisfying it is to be heard and accepted, and how rewarding it is to hear and accept others.
Perhaps if children place themselves in the story, and vicariously experience the kindness and the redemption of the different characters, they may assimilate some more positive ways of being. When exposed to healing language, they can be more prepared to use it themselves.
How great will it be when children become more aware of situations that can cause pain, learn to avoid them, and choose kinder and more productive alternatives. As they practice their new skills, children can develop the confidence to support and defend others when they see them being hurt.